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Hello, everyone.
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This is Howard Foxx and welcome back for another episode of the Outdoor Adventure Series.
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The podcast that celebrates individuals and families, businesses, and organizations that seek out and promote the exploration, stewardship, conservation, access.
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and enjoyment of the outdoors.
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Now today I'm going to add the word mindfulness because I am excited to have a good friend of mine on today's, podcast episode, Kerianne Hazick.
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Now, Kerianne is a professional coach, a mindfulness expert, and an outdoor enthusiast who, together with her husband, took to the road three years ago while coaching and leading mindfulness meditation.
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Kerianne, it's good to see you virtually.
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How are you doing?
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Good, Howard.
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It's really good to see you too.
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Fantastic.
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Now for our listeners, I can tell Kerianne is no longer on the road with her husband, that she is in her house.
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And for our listeners, uh, where are you located in the U.
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S.
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somewhere?
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I am in Sisters, Oregon.
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So, and we've been here just for a couple months.
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So I, I've been off the road just for a couple months.
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I'm still, whenever I'm running water, I still feel the need to conserve and be careful cause I'm going to fill the tank somehow.
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Right.
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That's, I think the biggest two, three biggest fears is running water.
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We're fresh water.
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Where to put the, the bad water, the, that goes into the black
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gray and black.
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gray and black, and how am I going to get an internet connection?
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because I have this dream of coaching on the road.
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I mean, I sit a lot.
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Too much, I might add, but to be able to podcast and coach from the road.
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There's just something about that.
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And, uh, I, I was excited, you and I met a couple months ago.
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We, you and, uh, our good friend, Kathy, you're put on this workshop for us on mindfulness and, the, the, the coaching program that Kathy has started.
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And, when I learned that you and your husband had lived on the road in an RV, I thought, well, there is a story, and here we are.
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Yes.
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yeah, we, we, um, we made a conscious decision to sell everything.
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make a huge change.
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My, uh, it was right at the end of covid.
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So I'm sure covid had something to do with it.
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I was a night nurse for my father for a short time.
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He was, he died a couple of years, a couple months after I was helping him for about a month.
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And because his The facility he was in, um, was hit so strongly with COVID they couldn't take care of him, um,
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Oh, wow.
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COVID.
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So, he moved into my brother's and, uh, I moved in and, uh, took care of him.
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And I, my husband and I would talk just on the phone every day and I kept dreaming about being in motion.
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And I, I called my husband and I said, I don't know why, but I can't do this anymore.
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I, I've got, I've got to move.
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And, um, he was just about to start looking for a new job.
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His job had ended.
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Um, and, uh, so I said, don't look for a new job.
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Can we just put our house on the market?
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Our kids, my lot, my daughter had just entered college while she was in college.
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And just because of COVID, she stayed at home for a while in college, but she just Transition to being at, at university and my, the two kids were off and I said, let's, let's do it.
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Let's go.
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And so we didn't know anything.
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I'd never even really been in a trailer, so I came home.
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Honestly, a month later, we bought a little trailer, a little R pod and, um, which was very tiny and not, not the best decision if you're going to live in a trailer, but you know, I was thinking size and travel and, um, and then my dad passed and then my mother passed a couple months later unexpectedly.
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And my, and then a month later, boom, me.
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Dwayne and our dog Neo.
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We were gone.
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We decided to travel the west and we did for two two and a half years We were on the road
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Okay.
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So, I have to ask, uh, are you the type of person, if you're gonna plan something, do you just, like, jump?
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All in or do you have to put, put a spreadsheet and processes and checklists in place.
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Well, let me let me say this when I was in my 20s I traveled a bit I was in the Peace Corps and I moved around a little bit But I always had a job like a Peace Corps job or a job overseas or something.
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I've never in my life just Left like this ever in my and so so there's that I also was a teacher So, teachers are are pretty methodical about certain things and I I was used to that And and my my partner is he's an engineer So lists and so but we we bought a big map and we we charted out a sort of a path But I would say maybe two months in we realized that we didn't want the path to determine us.
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We realized that the land needed to tell us where to go next.
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So we, we jettisoned that and we followed, we talked to people and we followed the land.
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Okay, when you say follow the land, I mean, you're up in Oregon, which I just did an episode with the the folks on the Oregon coast.
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I mean, I think it's like 377 miles of Oregon coast and we were literally the podcast was about all these special areas.
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You could have stayed in Oregon for the rest of your life and follow the land, but you went on a journey and when you, when you threw away the map and you said, let, let the land tell us where to go.
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How did you know what the land was telling you?
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Yeah.
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That's a good question.
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When we first started this trip, I had this, things were pretty crazy at the end of COVID.
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You know that there's a lot of chaos and, and fracturing in society.
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And there was a lot of contention in my workplace.
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And I thought, I just want to connect with people again.
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And I, and that was my original intention.
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But then as we traveled, we ended up seeing.
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Beautiful places, uh, national parks.
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Let me give you an example.
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We went to Arches National Park and it happened to be, um, some kind of national park day.
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And so all these Rangers were standing around talking to people and I said to the ranger, well, I've I, I'd like to go to another national park, but I don't have one scheduled for a while.
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And, I know you have to schedule and she goes, well, national monuments are often really open.
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And she recommended this place called Hovenweep.
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And so the next day, Dwayne and I put the trailer together and we drove what felt like forever past wild horses and into the desert.
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And I'd never really been in the desert before.
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This was my first movement into the desert.
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And we went to Hovenweep and there were like, Two other people there and it was quiet and beautiful.
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And there was this ancient just, um, there are two canyons and then around that ruins of the Anasazi or the ancient Pueblo.
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and we ended up spending a week there and he and I looked at each other and we said, this is what we want.
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And after that, we, we just went to these places like Chaco Canyon, right?
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we went down to the border of Mexico and we boondocked for a month at a place just because we heard it had a, um, uh, a hot spring.
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Um, yeah, yeah, we, that's, that was what we did.
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We stopped making plans and we just, we'd talk to people and they'd say, Oh, have you tried this?
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Or think about this.
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Or, uh, we were driving by, um, uh, kind of near, uh, death Valley.
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There's a national park or monument that has, um, these Little, the little blue fish, um, that come up, um, only certain,
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Ash Meadows.
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yes, ash meadows.
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And we saw ash
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of my favorite places.
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And so we just pulled in and said, Oh my goodness, this is amazing.
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And we, we toured and that was what we did.
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And in fact, our blog was called following wonder.
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And that was the, so we decided we only had one parameter and that was to stick with the West.
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And then we had a rule, um, no more than three.
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what was it?
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Um, do not get to a place after three o'clock.
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Um, Stay, wherever you stay, stay at least three days, and try to be in the car no more than three hours of driving.
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And so that was our, kind of our rule.
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Sometimes we drove maybe four hours, but the 3 3 3 was our rhythm.
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and sometimes we stayed someplace a couple weeks.
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the place we went boondocking on the border of, um, Hoven, uh, Hovenweep?
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No, uh, Holtville.
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Holtville.
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We were there for a month.
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So, I'm curious, when you and your, your husband embarked with your dog, Neo, and Neo, I'm making the assumption that Neo is, is related to the Matrix, or is
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Yes.
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Okay.
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His name was Neil and we didn't like it, so we changed it to something similar, but we loved Neo.
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Okay.
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uh, that's perfect.
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I, it's, it's, uh, three o'clock on a Friday and my brain cells are still working.
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I can make these connections.
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He, yeah, he was the one for us.
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okay.
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So when you set out, was being connected the, uh, Cellular phone, internet, Wi Fi.
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Um, was that important to you?
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It was to me for one reason only, and that is, um, while we were doing this, this journey, I was starting up my, my personal business of coaching and I was leading mindfulness sessions every Sunday.
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And so I had to be able to, no matter where we went.
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So the first, and I would sometimes lead, like I, we were at in Canada actually, and we were camping off grid and I had to lead a three hour session the next day.
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Um, and so we drove out to where there was cell phone and I could get a hotspot.
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We pulled over to the side of the road and I'm in the trailer on the side of the road using my hotspot leading a three hour session.
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And that's when I said, all right, we need something a little better than this.
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And so we did, we did get Starlink, and I know there's some contention around Starlink to Starlink or not, but for what I needed.
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It worked.
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We could set up Starlink anywhere.
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I used it in Death Valley.
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I used it in, Hauteville.
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And I had a consistent source of, the only time I think we had problems was one place where there were too many palm trees around us.
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Okay.
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See, and, and that's, that is helpful.
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So for anyone that, that is off on the road, because whether you have the hotspot or the Starlink, and all the contention in the world right now, if I was going to deal with this, I think I, unless there's an alternative I'm just not aware of, I, I would have to get a mobile Starlink.
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To be able to accomplish this,
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have done what I did without it.
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I really couldn't have.
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and that's important because, that's bringing in putting dollars in the bank account, allowing you to do your work and serving the need and the people that, that, that need what you.
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Your help.
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Yeah, yeah, I I could do my mindfulness in nature.
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Um,
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a bad place for that.
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no, and that was important to me.
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I started to lead more and more nature based mindfulness classes.
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and I could coach from wherever and I was mentoring as well.
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And so, there were different times scheduled and, um, we just yeah, yeah, yeah.
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We were able to work all that in seamlessly.
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I never missed anything, not once.
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You are inspiring me to no end right now, Carrie Anne.
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I have to tell you this.
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You're gonna be my go to resource, by the way, you and Duane.
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Yeah,
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I'm gonna get one question out of the way because everybody asked it on the internet.
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When you're on the road and you're in these places that are somewhat remote or Where they were so remote that you didn't have facilities like to do what you have to, take care of Mother Nature, take care of, get a good hot shower, wash your hair.
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How did you deal with that obstacle?
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so can I add something to that too?
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There's also, when I was researching being in these remote boondocking places as a woman, I, I, I felt a lot of fear coming out of the internet too.
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So I want to add to that.
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So first of all, Duane and I got very, very good at At conserving water.
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That's why I was telling you when I moved here.
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Every time I turn the water on, I was like, Oh, waste.
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But, um, we got very good at conserving water.
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For example, when we when we were at Holtville for a month, I think we only had to find a, um, a station to dump our black and gray two times.
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The entire month, and that is pretty remarkable.
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We had, bins so that we could wash dishes outside and do things like that.
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We had an outdoor shower, um, that was built into the So our second, we ended up getting a second, a different We got a Cougar MLS 22, which, by the way, if you're ever looking for a 27 foot trailer that is, uh, four season and solid, that's the one, man, it was wonderful.
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Very comfortable.
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but yeah, we, we didn't have, um, any problems.
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I never felt like I was really.
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roughing it in that way, um, because we had the trailer, but again, I'm, I'm a person who'd been camping tent and camping.
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And so I, compared to 10 camping, this is so luxurious, we have heated seats and
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Okay.
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we, um, we could use a generator if we had to.
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And sometimes we did, we had solar, um, we had some solar panels, uh, again, married to an engineer.
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So he liked to play with all that stuff.
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So in terms of, That no, I, you, when you have a trailer, you can figure out how to make all that work.
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boondocking is not a problem.
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My concern was safety.
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I was very worried.
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I heard, when you go boondocking, you shouldn't knock on people's doors.
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And I discovered Howard, it was just the opposite.
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And at first I was, I was afraid I'll admit, I was really afraid to talk to people.
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I didn't know what kind of reception I would get.
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but time and time again, people would, see us walking our dog all the time and they'd stop and they'd talk to us.
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And, Everyone had stories to tell and, and that's just it.
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It wasn't about being on the road changed, changed my frame, right?
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I know right now we're living in a world where I think political frame is strong, but when you're on the road, the frame is where'd you come from?
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The question's always, so where'd you come from?
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Where are you going?
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it's about meeting other travelers.
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What made you, get on the road?
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How long have you been on the road?
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What kind of rig do you have?
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Mm hmm.
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You have this whole world of conversation and I, I don't even know what the politics was of most people, unless they, were, were showing that with, signs or banners or something.
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but most people, it was really just a connection of place.
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not once did we find ourselves, uh, feeling unsafe.
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Okay.
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Well, that's actually very good to hear.
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Because it's my roommate's boyfriend likes to say everything you see on the internet is true.
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well, let me rephrase that.
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Of course everything you hear on the internet is true.
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That's his go to saying.
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And you I mean, you have to read, you have to explore, you have to get enough evidence to say what is, what is true, what is not, doesn't mean you don't want to be mindful of where you're at, who you're talking to, but it's not something that should put you into fight or flight and,
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and in fact, I, I'm comfortable now going out on trails.
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I, I hike every day almost now, um, which is something I didn't do before, and I'll go out just me and my dog or, um, when I was training to do the Rim to Rim, um, in the Grand Canyon, uh, which I did in September, I was out on my own a lot.
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you meet other travelers on the trail, people say hi, it's, um, it's, it's, it's a different community out there.
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Heh,
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Wow, so I have one more logistical question because I like again, you're my you're gonna be my go to right now for How do I accomplish this?
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well actually two questions one when you sold your house Did you sell all your belongings or did you put those in storage somewhere?
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Um, we, so we sold a lot of our belongings.
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We gave, uh, some away to, like, uh, there's an organization and then we came from Portland, Oregon that, um, we give to refugees.
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And so we gave quite a bit to that organization.
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And, uh, yeah, and we, and we put some things in storage, so we did all of the above, um, but not much in storage.
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I, I, we really tried to be, um, careful with that.
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we didn't want
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That ends up so quickly and I just, I mean, they lowered my bill recently and now it's back up and it's like, this is killing me.
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It's killing me.
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So, okay, cool.
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I appreciate that.
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Next question.
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When you're coaching or facilitating a mindfulness workshop, were you, I have this vision in my mind of, yes, I could do some of this work in the confines of the But I also have this desire to put up the awning, have a nice chair, overlooking the nice scenery, and I have my mic, I've got my headset on, I, there's not a lot, and I have, there's some, the tools out there to edit the podcast, the audio are pretty good these days.
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But that's what I want to be able to do.
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Sit outside, coach my clients or have this podcast.
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And so how did you decide on where the best place was for you to facilitate the work that you were doing?
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Or is it just whatever, wherever the whim took you,
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Well, weather was a part of it.
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We started to really make sure that we were in places where we could be outside more and for sure Howard I actually if If you go to on insight timer, I have some meditations that are recorded outside.
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I did some sessions outside and I'm not the only one to do that.